Date night
Re: Date night
Originally Posted by Hangman
You mean to tell me that a 2 seater that can be had Brand New LOADED for around $26K is not cheap??? Seriously.. you can't even get a fully loaded Miata with a a power top for that price... Like I said, I love the Crossfire like anyone here.. but it is what it is and I don't pretend for it to be what it is not. You can't even purchase a brand new similarly equiped pedestrian car like an Accord or a Camry for what you pay for a new Crossfire. Is the Crossfire a beautiful car? It sure is. Is it a limited car? Yup.. Is it a fun car to own and drive? Hell yes it is.. but it is what it is and its a its a car.. and like I said a relatively cheap one at that.... Cost of entry into Crossfire ownership is pretty low... thats just the truth ...which makes it a great bargain with great bang for the buck..
Re: Date night
MSRP is irrelevent.
A person with good enough taste that is willing to sacrifice higher fuel mileage and cargo room to purchase a Crossfire, then care for it like it was his/her child, is a classy individual who understands and values passion in vehicles.
That's what makes a Crossfire more than "just a car".
People buy "just cars" to sip fuel back and forth from work or carry their dog.
A person with good enough taste that is willing to sacrifice higher fuel mileage and cargo room to purchase a Crossfire, then care for it like it was his/her child, is a classy individual who understands and values passion in vehicles.
That's what makes a Crossfire more than "just a car".
People buy "just cars" to sip fuel back and forth from work or carry their dog.
Re: Date night
Originally Posted by Opticon
MSRP is irrelevent.
A person with good enough taste that is willing to sacrifice higher fuel mileage and cargo room to purchase a Crossfire, then care for it like it was his/her child, is a classy individual who understands and values passion in vehicles.
That's what makes a Crossfire more than "just a car".
People buy "just cars" to sip fuel back and forth from work or carry their dog.
A person with good enough taste that is willing to sacrifice higher fuel mileage and cargo room to purchase a Crossfire, then care for it like it was his/her child, is a classy individual who understands and values passion in vehicles.
That's what makes a Crossfire more than "just a car".
People buy "just cars" to sip fuel back and forth from work or carry their dog.
Re: Date night
Originally Posted by analogfight
Saturday night I went on a date, which means the XF needs to be in top form. So I dropped my car off at the detail shop and she got a bath and a wax along with an interior cleaning and some nice Vanilla scent. I was really happy with it. I swung by the flower shop and got a flower and I was off to my date. The girl gets in my car and we head to dinner, she makes a few comments about how clean my car is and how she has never seen an XF. WOOHOO a girl interested in cars I thought, as the night went on things go well until the end of the date. I pull up to her house and we are chatting, and as shes getting out of the car she says " I cant go on another date with you because you obviously car about your car too much." I just sat there shocked. Is it that bad that I take care of my investment
Re: Date night
Originally Posted by cgocifer
As for the date excuse, that was just her way of telling you nicely that she wasn't interested. Had nothing to do with your car. Sorry bro, but at least she didn't just tell you that you weren't good looking enough for her or smelled bad.
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Re: Date night
Sorry the girl flaked at the end - But better to know early than after spending lots of time and money and getting your hopes up! As for the Crossfire, I see exactly what Hangman is saying. It's a cool car, but it isn't necessarily bragging rights. It appeals to some (myself and my wife included), but we don't pretend we're driving around in a $40K+ Mercedes. We just enjoy it for what it is ... No more, no less.
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Re: Date night
I have the opposite problem - if it wasn't for having the Crossfire I wouldn't attract any female interest. No BO or BB...just middle-aged and homely. I have had women in clubs strike up conversations just to go for a ride. So - that's even more superficial.
In summary, not every date works out. Write her off and move on. And ease off on the vanilla scent. Try leaving some dirty sweat socks behind her seat and let the pherenomes do their work.
In summary, not every date works out. Write her off and move on. And ease off on the vanilla scent. Try leaving some dirty sweat socks behind her seat and let the pherenomes do their work.
Re: Date night
Just a quick question for the "OP" -- Once you realized that she liked your Crossfire, did you continue to talk about it during the date? I know you said that you were shocked that she was into cars, so maybe that opened the door for you to talk about the car. Maybe she just got tired of hearing you talk about it and assumed that any future dates would go the same way. I'm not saying that that's what happened; I'm just asking. I'm trying to find some rationale other than that (a) she wasn't interested in you based on your personality, or (b) she found you offensive (B.O., B.B., etc.). Just asking.
Re: Date night
Blame the woman on an unsucessful date? why? either way it did not work out and you have to deal with it.. go home and jerk off... unfortunatly... absolutely halarious to read the posts of on this thread... Hangman I with you on this one.. at least for the most part...
Maybe you are doing to much to impress? I sure hope the flowers was not for the first date... you see when someone really wants to get to know you and impress you.. it always feels like they have some kind of agenda behind it.. and prolly she felt this way.. and did not want to offend you directly so she said something negative about the car..
Don't take it to heart move on find other woman to practice your wooing on... but remmber if you are using the crossfire (or anything for that matter) as a prop make sure it is natrual to you and don't make it.. as if it is a big deal to you... let it be your way of life a set of high standards you expect her to fit into as well..
I may be wrong and she may be a complete psycho, but somehow I don't think so...
Maybe you are doing to much to impress? I sure hope the flowers was not for the first date... you see when someone really wants to get to know you and impress you.. it always feels like they have some kind of agenda behind it.. and prolly she felt this way.. and did not want to offend you directly so she said something negative about the car..
Don't take it to heart move on find other woman to practice your wooing on... but remmber if you are using the crossfire (or anything for that matter) as a prop make sure it is natrual to you and don't make it.. as if it is a big deal to you... let it be your way of life a set of high standards you expect her to fit into as well..
I may be wrong and she may be a complete psycho, but somehow I don't think so...
Last edited by Sidez; 04-08-2008 at 09:21 PM.
Re: Date night
Originally Posted by Sidez
Blame the woman on an unsucessful date? why? either way it did not work out and you have to deal with it.. go home and jerk off... unfortunatly... absolutely halarious to read the posts of on this thread... Hangman I with you on this one.. at least for the most part...
Maybe you are doing to much to impress? I sure hope the flowers was not for the first date... you see when someone really wants to get to know you and impress you.. it always feels like they have some kind of agenda behind it.. and prolly she felt this way.. and did not want to offend you directly so she said something negative about the car..
Don't take it to heart move on find other woman to practice your wooing on... but remmber if you are using the crossfire (or anything for that matter) as a prop make sure it is natrual to you and don't make it.. as if it is a big deal to you... let it be your way of life a set of high standards you expect her to fit into as well..
I may be wrong and she may be a complete psycho, but somehow I don't think so...
Maybe you are doing to much to impress? I sure hope the flowers was not for the first date... you see when someone really wants to get to know you and impress you.. it always feels like they have some kind of agenda behind it.. and prolly she felt this way.. and did not want to offend you directly so she said something negative about the car..
Don't take it to heart move on find other woman to practice your wooing on... but remmber if you are using the crossfire (or anything for that matter) as a prop make sure it is natrual to you and don't make it.. as if it is a big deal to you... let it be your way of life a set of high standards you expect her to fit into as well..
I may be wrong and she may be a complete psycho, but somehow I don't think so...
The girl I had a date with was telling me how on one date she had, this guy brought flowers and candy on the first date. She said she felt like it was way too much.
Then I told her how on one date with one girl, we went to a bar to hang out and her dad kept calling her every half hour. She got a kick out of that story. LOL.
Last edited by sonoronos; 04-08-2008 at 09:46 PM.