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The ID works but the f'ing area code made it show up as a no-name. Stupid phones.

 

Also she said "oooOOooo" in the sense that I have a temper or something? I only said it in a plain voice "who's this?" women.

 

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Well the ball is in her court, I'm waiting on the call to come over. I have nothing to lose. She calls, great, fun times. If not, my mom gets some flowers. No tears here.

 

Yeah, actually we are sort of seeing each other now...I'm not sure though, I don't feel a connection with her really. Not enough to validate me driving to the city and parking my car on the streets of Philly...Yikes! What can I say? Seems like she is totally into me, but im not into her as much. It's a bad situation and unfortunately it happens to me too often!

 

Her loss if she doesn't call! Good luck man.

 

moot point.

Don't over think it. Just be yourself and have fun. (I favor the "tuck").

 

TRICKERY!! FALSE ADVERTISEMENT!!! I WILL NEVER DATE ONLINE AGAIN!!!

That being said, she did not look like her pictures. She had cheek bones in her pics. This chick was fat. I'm not shallow, but come on.

I tried to widen the picture but that still doesn't represent the real thing. Pfft, Waste of money on flowers and food, but hey at least I got out of the house.

 

LOL sorry it didn't work out after having gone thru all of that. I got to admit that the original pic looked pretty good.

 

Would it be rational to help her lose weight? Like some sort of exercise partner? Maybe she just gained a bit after her last break up. We're talking like 40-50 pounds. I hate to be cruel and dismiss someone when there is a cute girl underneath that redundant protoplasm.

 

This seems like "Only Men" kind of Thread.
My apology to barge in.
If you don't mind opinion from the opposite sex.

After reading this,
You are like the character in a movie where this guy only see Gwyneth Paltrow (the kind heart inside a person) when others see the actual BIG girl he was dating. NOT implying the shallow part, alright.
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Very nice, kind and if sweet is acceptable a character, thats what you are.
If that "date" of yours didn't see it in you, her loss. And am sure you will meet one that well deserved you.
Don't give up.
All the best.

 

Hate to tell I told you so, but for some reason it is not okay for guys to make up anything in on-line dating but it is perfectly fine for women to use high school photos. Sorry man, but as the moody blues (so I'm dating myself) said "I know your out there somewhere", "you got to play to win".

 

But did she like the Crossfire?

 

and more importantly... did she fit inside?

 

I think some of the posters/owners here aren't exactly small, either.

 

Wow... you spent all this time posting your life story about some date you found online... worried about the dumbest things... and then have the gull to pass judgment on someone else??? I'm sitting here reading this thread and thinking "Damn, what is wrong with this guy?" Especially after you couldn't even dress yourself.

 

That was fun. What's next?

 

I'm sure he'll know make a thread about "Xfire Breakfast run"...talk about how he saw this restaurant... but doesn't know how to get there, can't decided on what to where... talk endlessly about how does he order, can he get dessert first? And then at the end of the day, he'll come back post all pissed off and say " i can't believe i was a extra charge to super size my order, but at least i got out today".

 

What's wrong with this guy? Its that girls won't give this guy a f-ing chance. I have a lot to offer and cant get find a decent non-tattooed, physically fit, mentally fit date. If you don't like the post, don't read it, especially don't post your negative comments. I thought I'd come here and ask for advise being that I only have 2 friends in real life. I also only get dates about every 6 months, so I want them to work out.

So thanks a lot as*hole.